Posts Tagged ‘dharma’

they

Sunday, January 30th, 2011

 

Who is it that is different from you? So different that they exist as they?

 

Those people that when you talk with one of your own can be referred to simply as ‘they’. Is it women? White people? Black people? Students? Teachers? Clients? Muslims? Brits? Beneficiaries? Bosses? Politicians?

 

Look again. They are not so different. Be quiet, be calm and look again.

 

Do you see it? The way they breath? The way they doubt. The way they wonder and wish for things they do not have?

 

Look. Take your time and feel their fear, their hope, their love and loathing, their disappointment and their joy, their suffering.

 

Do you recognise it? Do you recognise them?

 

Do you recognise yourself? Do you see your own fears and frustrations, your longing and your love?

 

Take your time. Practice …….

 

x bhavatu sabbe mangalum x

 

Luminosity and Knowing

Friday, March 5th, 2010

 

With persistent practice, consciousness may eventually be perceived or felt as an entity of mere luminosity and knowing, to which anything is capable of appearing and which, when appropriate conditions arise, can be generated in the image of whatsoever object. As long as the mind does not encounter the external circumstance of conceptuality, it will abide empty without anything appearing in it, like clear water. Its very entity is that of mere experience. Let the mind flow of its own accord without conceptual overlay. Let the mind rest in its natural state, and observe it. In the beginning, when you are not used to this practice, it is quite difficult, but in time the mind appears like clear water.
The Dalai Lama, in The Dalai Lama: A Policy of Kindness

 

Let the mind rest in its natural state, and observe it. In the beginning, when you are not used to this practice, it is quite difficult.
 
Always practice -  and more practice.
 
The only way you can ‘cruise’ is (a) if you have no more lessons to learn, or (b) you take a cruisy attitude to the lessons as they present themselves. Remember we all suffer, every one of us, all the time. So there is no end to suffering. Do not wish that to cease, such wishing is pointless and ultimately debilitating.

 
Rather the trick (and the lesson, every lesson) is to change the way we respond to suffering. By being less torn and upset by it we feel like we are cruising more (obviously), life becomes ‘easier’.
 
Others perceive us as suffering less. They are right and wrong. Do not confuse the exterior conditions of suffering  (those that were once causes) with interior ’sufferance’. The external conditions of suffering are still there, what we learn is to suffer less (and laugh more? be more irreverent? take it less seriously?). What we learn is that these external conditions need not cause us to be unhappy.

 

 
To reach the point that the DL describes we must first accept all that ‘appears’ in our consciousness as ‘ok’. That is as neither good nor bad, neither having the characteristic of invoking pleasure or suffering. Things that appear ’simply are’. When this is the case we have (and must accept) total responsibility for how we will feel in regard to this things. Sufferance becomes a choice.

 
x bhavatu sabbe mangalum x

 

live with intention

Sunday, October 18th, 2009

 

I found this saved on my cellphone as I was browsing through it the other day :-

 

live with intention.

walk to the edge.

listen hard.

practice wellness.

play with abandon.

laugh.

choose with no regret.

continue to learn.

appreciate your friends.

do what you love.

live as if this is all there is.

 

x bhavatu sabbe mangalum x

my presentation, my dharma

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

 

Here it is then, posted due to overwhelming public demand, the 10 minute presentation I gave to my TESOL class last week. Feedback is most welcome.

 

 

x bhavatu sabbe mangalum x

 

i LOVE this guy

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009

 

I came across this by chance this morning. What a joy to hear his voice again. I just smiled and smiled… enjoy.

 

 

Thank you so much S.N. Goenka for teaching me so much. I love you.

 

sadhu sadhu sadhu

 

x bhavatu sabbe mangalum x